I have a theory based in absolutely no fact other than my own personal experiences and preferences, but I think that there is a very distinct difference between choices and decisions.
I believe that choices are matters of preference, and generally do not have a substantial or long term impact, while decisions are directional and tend to have a substantial impact on the future and direction you are headed.
I say this because I think that I have a hard time making choices, but I can make decisions fairly easily. I know people who are the same, while I also know people who are the exact opposite.
For me it’s easy to make a decision. I look at where the decision will likely leave me, what the consequences and long-term implications are, and can make a decision.
On the other hand, choices are impossible. I can spend an hour in a grocery store trying to figure out what I want to have for dinner, because at the end of the day it doesn’t really matter, and I have to choose between two equal or at least near-equal choices.
Like I said, this theory isn’t based on anything, so take it or leave it. It’s your choice.
I love it! Well done. I totally agree!
Hmmm…this is a good observation Ryan. But I suppose I would add that choices and decisions are not mutually exclusive…short term or long term, intentional or inevitable, but rather they reflect a progression of thinking and resolve. Decisions often lead to choices and choices to decisions.
Well written, thanks for sharing
I agree with that particular distinction between Choice vs Decision but I have another one. A decision is something functional. Something a computer does. For example, a computer makes a logical decision. You never hear anyone say that a computer makes a choice. A choice is something we humans who believe in free will do. A choice doesn’t have to be logical. A choice is not looked at as a mechanical process in the brain but rather a higher level of guided influence by the person’s soul or other higher power within the ego.
Mmm, good point!