So this post needs a little background. The past few months I’ve been working on the MBC Leadership Forum, a conference that we’ve put together for MBC Staff and Key volunteers in order to encourage and equip them in their ministry leadership. I’ve had an amazing time working on it, even though it’s been a ton of work.
Tonight (Friday) was the first day (it will continue tomorrow) and it was absolutely spectacular. I was running around for a lot of it, but I did get a chance to see most of the Forum, but wasn’t able to really let anything sink in until the final session of the day.
And wow, did it rock me.
Todd Phillips, the Director and Teaching Pastor of Frontline closed out the day talking about a leader caring for their “inner self”.
One of the most dangerous traps we as ministry leaders can fall into is building up all our outer “stuff” while neglecting to care for our inner self.
Here were two points that he made that, honestly, I’m not doing a great job at:
We need to find time to be alone.
This is something I have a hard time with. I love being around other people. I love hanging out with friends, and just being around people in general. I really have a hard time pulling myself away to be alone, just me and God.
I know I have to though, because that is where the most amazing moments you will have with God happen. It is in aloneness and brokenness that God shapes us.
Prayer (or lack thereof)
Todd really hammered home the importance of prayer in the life of a ministry leader. He argued that many, if not most, ministry leaders find having a strong prayer life difficult. I would agree with him 100 percent.
I know I struggle with this. I look at my to-do list and see my e-mail inbox flooded and prayer is the last thing on my mind. But that’s stupid. Am I so arrogant that I think I can handle this on my own?
Another thing that he said that struck me is that we often only talk to God during our busy times. Another thing I would agree with him on. What I would like to do starting now is make a concerted effort to carve out a chunk of my day where I completely shut off everything except God. I’m not going to lie, it’s going to be hard, but it’s essential.
The whole idea of self-care, of caring for our inner self, is something that is absolutely essential. If we do not care for our inner self, if we do not build a strong relationship with God at the absolute core of our beings, then we will not be able to sustain the weight of our ministry or of our gifts. All the amazing ministry and spiritual giftedness will not stand up if there is not a strong foundation underneath it. In fact, the stronger our gifts and the bigger our ministry is without the cultivation of our inner self, the bigger the collapse will be when it comes.
The Leadership Forum ends tomorrow, and my prayer is that it finishes as well as it went today, and that people do not walk out unchanged.
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